too much effort…

I just thought of this during the weekend…and for me this is sooooo retarded ( forgive me if that sounds a bit rude , I can’t help it ).

Why spend too much effort in getting someone back when it is so much easier to get someone better?

When it’s over, it is really over…it means you have to move on. Have some dignity or respect for yourself. Learn to love yourself again because during those moments that you’re madly inlove with that someone at some point you have loved yourself a little less.

So that amount of love for yourself that was lost, you have to take it back.

Some girls doesn’t understand this or maybe they do, they just refused to accept it.

Some girls would need to spend a night with their girlfriends,get drunk and just vent out. Some would need harsh words only for them to realize that its a mad mad world out there. Either way , acceptance is the key.

I’ve read this somewhere…

“Love is like drinking beer. Once you get too much of it, you begin to act stupid”

Too much love can be a crime ( at least that’s what I thought ) , uncontrolled emotions towards someone can make you a very possessive partner.Overruling.Selfish. ( sooner or later you’ll act like a monster )

And that’s not how love is supposed to be.

Has to be passionate not aggressive.

This is my favorite: 

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

1 Corinthians 13:4-7

If you can’t make someone love you back then let it be. You can never force someone to love you the way you want them to. You are only making a big fool out of yourself. How pathetic can you be?

someone made me feel bitter again, that’s why my thoughts are kinda weird…yes I am overthinking. Which is basically the reason why I have this blog. Excuse the wrong grammars, I am a bit sleepy…teehihi.

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